My horoscope for today:
Relationships: They're what's for dinner. Yep, it's time to spotlight all those warm and fuzzy people that you can't get along without. So go ahead, celebrate the partnerships that are working. As for the ones that aren't -- well, reexamine them closely. You may have different wants and needs. If this is the case, then compromise is the order of the day. Have a heart-to-heart talk and work something out. Give a little to get a lot. Don't spend too much time analyzing things.
Here's the deal.....
With me it's pretty cut & dry, cold or hot, on or off, black or white as far as relationships go, you dig??? I seldom deal in "grey" areas. I either like you and have a relationship with you, or I don't. And trust you will know if I don't like you! However, there are some relationships that I do need to work on, my mother is one, the teenager and the other is with my S.O.
Mother
She feels I don't have time for her and gets mad that I don't call her everyday. She is getting up in age, she now lives in a retirement community and is extremely bored the majority of the time out there. Our problems started years ago tho, and the problem I think is she is jealous of people that I have intimate relationships with - jealous of the time they have with me that she doesn't. When I was married (many moons ago,been divorced for years) she was jealous of him. That's when I first started hearing "you don't have time for me anymore" I tried explaining to her that I work, I have a husband and a child I have to spend time with and that I couldn't spend every free moment I had with her. She maintained this same attitude (although, she has turned it down a few notches) over the last few years, when ever I get involved with someone and it didn't/doesn't help that my relationships for the last nine years have been exclusively with women - she has come to accept that(kinda). I love my mother and I know she loves me, together we can improve our relationship - we actually are very much alike which is over half the battle!
S.O.
Ok, this is a long one that I won't write about here. Primarily, because I think it's to personal. I will say, she gives, gives and gives. She accomadates me in most every way. Me on the other hand, needs work, needs work, needs work.
The Teenager
It's all good with her! She is a pretty laid back kid. Other than having to stay on her to keep that room and bathroom of hers clean we are good for the most part. She is in her own world most of the time, I enter into it with her as often as I can to see what's going on. We just need to work on her calling me when she is suppose to when she hangs out with friends! She is a work in progress, so there is always room for improvement.
